Hi friends,
Everyone is on a different path at any given moment in their life. Some are small like trying to get good grades or get that burger that you are craving, other paths are longer and bigger and more confusing. The ladder seem to also start out simple and grow more complicated. However, the beauty of these paths ( and sometimes the beast of them ) is no two paths are the same. The same disaster or achievement can happen to two people and they will both always react differently depending on what path they are on at the moment.
These paths though are truly only known by the people on them. So if we are all on different paths and have not experienced the same path as our friend, lover, or parent, then do we really have a right to judge them for the path they are currently on. We don't know the road blocks of their path just as they don't know ours. We don't know what they have learned from their previous paths just as they don't know what we have learned.
Our society has driven us as human being to judge every person who comes near our path. We judge their hair, their weight, their outfit, their job, their college, their significant other, their sexual orientation, but we get offended when people judge us before they know the full story. So how about we change the world, one judgement at a time.
The next time you encounter someone and you begin to judge them ask yourself this:
1. What exactly am I judging them on, and do I have all the information to be able to make that judgement?
2. Would I like it if someone were judging me for that?
And when it comes to people judging you...
Unfortunately our world has become so prone to judging that it is usually the first thing we do when we meet someone. So know people will judge you and if you are close enough to them you can politely explain to them a little more of your path, or you can just leave them to their pointless judging, because lets be honest you don't want to surround yourself with people who have so much free time that they can truly sit there and spend time judging you.
Until Next Time,
Morgan
